After I was
attacked about this for the third time, I wanted to take a minute to really
think about why such different people would use the exact same language in
berating me for being, in their words, “too logical”.
The
discussion often begins with my expressing my frustration with people that are
illogical. By this I mean people who either A) Believe in something because they
want to, or like the sound of it, regardless of whether or not they have any
other reason to; B) Will not change their opinion about something despite
evidence to the contrary, or C) Prejudge what they like or dislike before having
any facts or experience to base their ideas on (this one can range from racists
assuming someone is a bad person to picky eaters refusing to try something they
already “know” they’ll dislike). This follows with me priding myself in being
what I think is a logical person. I try to be as objective in my reasoning as
possible, and when I come to a conclusion it is based on the facts presented to
me at the time, and that conclusion, once reached, will not change unless I
find new contradictory evidence or I find a flaw in my original reasoning
process. I will never understand people who are completely convinced one way
one day and the next manage to pretzel-think themselves into the complete
opposite opinion, nothing else having changed.
When the
conversation gets to this point, I always get scoffed at. Despite three
different people having had this conversation with me, at least one of which I
find to be a very rational person (she is on her way to becoming a scientist
after all) said the same thing. “Well, you can’t be too logical! That’s not good either! Being too logical leads to
just as limited a life as being illogical.” I always respond “OK, why?” Answer:
“Um…. you know…. it just does….. you can’t just live life based on logic…” but
no good example has ever been presented. I counter argue this lack of argument
saying that I don’t think it is limiting at all, and if you have a good example
of how it is please share it.
First of
all, taking on a common misconception. By being “logical” I do not mean denying
the existence of emotion. By being “logical” I do not mean lacking empathy. By
being “logical” I do not mean not ever having a “bad feeling” about something,
or a “good feeling” about something without being able to explain what made you
feel that way. Let’s take a look at a
couple dictionary definitions:
Logical: reasoning in accordance with the principles of logic, as a person or the mind
Logic:
1. the science that investigates the principles governing correct or reliable inference.
2. a particular method of reasoning or argumentation: We were unable to follow his logic.
3. the system or principles of reasoning applicable to any branch of knowledge or study.
Reasoning: the process of forming conclusions, judgments, or inferences from facts or premises.
There it
is, inferences from facts or premises.
When I say “logical”,
I mean that if there is direct evidence to contradict that feeling, and/or you
find that the source of it is not something that should make you feel
frightened (for example you had a bad dream with a lot of red in it and then
you walk into a red room and get that frightened gut feeling because of it)
that you are able to get over your irrational fear. I mean that you are willing
and able to change your mind about something when you are presented with
evidence that goes contrary to your belief, despite how unpalatable you find
the alternative. To me this is being truly open-minded: to be willing to believe
in anything so long as there is evidence for it. I mean the exact opposite of
what I previously listed as traits of the illogical.
The fact of
the matter is, “logic” and “rationality” just have a bad rep. None of these
people I was by now having a one-sided argument with could give me any good
reason as to why they rejected the terms, they just rang as “bad thing” in
their heads. Why is that? Why do these things have such a bad reputation?
Is it a
lingering influence of organized religion in our society and in the backs of
our minds? Even though one of the aforementioned people is and atheist, one a
pantheist and the other a deist at best, could it still be that organized
religion has left its taint on them in this way? Why else is there this visceral
distrust of reasoning, using one’s brain to sceptically question and seek the
truth? What else thrives on people not encouraged to base their opinions on
facts? Dictatorships probably, but none of us grew up in one.
What do you
think? When I initially talked about being a logical person, did you also
instinctively balk at the word? Why do you think that is?
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